How to meet single Chinese ladies

If you're looking for an Asian wife or girlfriend then there are loads of single Chinese ladies looking for a husband. Here's what you need to know about meeting and dating a single Chinese lady.

It's easy to meet single Chinese ladies online. There are loads of specialist niche dating agency websites where single Chinese ladies can talk to Western men looking for Chinese wives. Popular sites include Chnlove (here's a ChnLove review) and Chinese Love Links (read my Chinese Love Links review). There are also plenty of Asian dating websites with single ladies from many different countries. There are a lot of single Chinese ladies on these sites as well. Try the Cherry Blossoms dating site as well as the Asian Kisses dating site.

Some of these single Chinese lady dating sites have a poor reputation for scams, so be on your guard. I can assure you though that most of the ladies on the sites do really exist! I did visit a beautiful single lady I met on Chnlove. Our relationship didn't work out, but visiting her and her family in China was a tremendous experience.

A major problem for single Chinese ladies looking for Western men is that there aren't many Chinese ladies who can speak or read/write English.

The problem is that Chinese and Western languages such as English are completely different. There are no shared words, and the grammar is different. The Chinese don't even have an alphabet - instead they use thousands of Chinese Hanzi characters for writing. Chinese is also a tonal language, so the same word said in a different tone means something quite different. Say a Mandarin word with the wrong tone and oops - you've just called your mother in law a horse!

Single Chinese ladies who don't speak or read much English have to rely on a translator. Most ladies employ a translator through a marriage agency. These agencies tend to put their ladies on sites such as the Chnlove dating site.

The problem is that some of these agencies are less than honest and there is a lot of documented proof that us men have been lead astray. A lot of agencies will tend to put positive spin on the translations being sent between the man and the lady. Obviously the agency will make the bulk of their money from a successful engagement or marriage, so it is in their interest to keep the man encouraged.

As if that wasn't enough, immigration authorities are also cracking down on immigration from countries such as Thailand or China. A foreign spouse will often have to undergo an interview before being granted a fiance or spouse visa.

So what is the solution to the language barrier? Well in my opinion you're better off avoiding any single Chinese lady who has no English language skills whatsoever. China has a vast population and there are loads of single Chinese ladies on Asian dating sites.

The good news is that learning Mandarin Chinese is not impossible. It's usually possible to find a Mandarin Chinese class in your local area. If you can speak a few words of Chinese then you will definitely impress single Chinese ladies!

It's also possible to learn how to read and write Chinese characters. The grammar of the Chinese language is very straightforward. There are a lot of characters to memorise, but it does get easier the more you learn. Chinese kids have to memorise them. As adults we are a lot smarter, so we can find a few sneaky shortcuts to speed up the learning process.

By the way it is possible to find ladies who know languages other than English. I've exchanged emails with ladies who were Russian and Spanish translators. I also know men from France and Spain who have successfully met Chinese ladies online, so even if your first language isn't English or Mandarin Chinese it's also possible to meet a single Chinese lady.

Make no mistake - dating and marrying someone from a wildly different culture is going to be one of the most difficult things you will ever do. But then again, meeting a single Chinese lady will also be one of the most rewarding things you will ever do. When a marriage between a single Chinese lady and an American man works it is a fantastic thing. I know a lot of men who are really pleased they made the supreme effort to find a loving single Chinese lady.

Chinese girls are from a culture that is wildly different from Western societies. Family is very important to Chinese ladies. A Chinese lady will rarely go against her family's wishes, so it''s crucial that you impress your future in-laws!

Despite the cultural barrier, I have to say that choosing a suitable single Chinese lady for marriage isn't that much different to choosing a life partner in your own town. Ladies can largely be divided into those who just want to raise a family and those who will mess you around. It's pretty much the same with men - men are either cads or dads.

Don't forget that a single Chinese lady is just as likely to have baggage as the Western women you see on dating sites. A lot of singles on dating sites have been married previously and may have children from a previous relationship. There is also the added complication in that a single Chinese lady may have elderly parents and relatives to care for as well.

While a lady with baggage isn't always a problem, just make sure you sort out difficult issues early on in the relationship. Chinese ladies have an annoying habit of not telling their men about incredibly important things - if you date a single Chinese lady you'll see what I mean.

Don't let my experiences put you off though. A single Chinese lady can make a truly fabulous wife! Good luck in your quest to find a single Chinese lady online.