Where to find Asian women for dating

There's huge interest from guys wanting to date Asian women. Here's some useful information about where to find Asian women for dating.

There are plenty of dating sites where you can chat and email Asian women.

Some of these sites are a bit of a rip off. Avoid any site that charges you every time you contact a woman. These sites include Chnlove. I spent over $400 on Chnlove and that was only to contact around a dozen women. Sites like Chnlove that charge per email are also notorious for scams as the business model encourages rogue agencies, fake profiles and all kinds of other scams. Chnlove help with translating your emails to the Chinese ladies on the site. This is a useful service. However, due to the global tightening of visa regulations if you want your Asian wife to live in your country then I would avoid anyone who can't speak or write any English at all, you'll just make too many problems for yourself further down the line.

An Asia dating site like Cherry Blossoms is OK. The site is much cheaper than somewhere like Chnlove. They're pretty good at removing scammers. However there are a lot of timewasting and dishonest ladies on Cherry Blossoms, so beware. I do know men who have met good and honest Asian ladies through Cherry Blossoms though.

The Cupid Media sites (Chinese Love Links, Thai Love Links, Japan Cupid, Filipina Heart) are the best Asian dating sites in my opinion. You can find Asian women for dating and marriage as well as women just looking for shorter term relationships or even just language study partners and penpals. All the Cupid Media sites have reasonable flat rate fees. I don't have a business relationship with this company, I just think their sites are the best Asian dating sites (and many other men agree with me).

As with all dating sites there are plenty of timewasters and the occasional scam lady, so be careful.

If you're looking for an Asian woman for dating then make sure she is marriage minded if that's what you want.

Women under the age of 35 are a lot of hassle, so avoid them if you want an easy life.

Don't fall for the myth of Asian women preferring to marry much older men. Older Chinese businessmen love young ladies, but bear in mind these ladies are nearly always mistresses, not wives!

Divorced ladies are always a good option as they'll have realistic ideas of men and how useless we can be sometimes. Dating sites are full of 30-40 year old women who are looking for Mr 100% - these can be a nightmare as well.

Finally remember that Asia has seen an unprecedented economic boom in the last two decades. Asian women have had a taste of the good times, and they are a lot more Westernised these days than you might expect. Do not date an Asian woman just because you are done with Western women.

Dating sites are a bit like the wild west. Many people I know tell me that dating sites aren't as good as they used to be. Even many of the popular sites like Match.com seem to be overrun with timewasters and cheaters these days. I wonder what the percentage is of people on Match.com who are already married or in a relationship? I expect it's pretty high!

I like the Introduction Agency approach to finding Asian women for dating. If you hunt around the Internet you'll find a lot of Introduction Agencies that will put you in touch with Asian women who want to marry Western husbands. If you want a Thai wife from Thailand then I would not bother with dating sites at all. You'll probably be much better off using an introduction agency like Anglo Thai Introductions. Although they charge quite a large up-front fee, it does include helping you to find a Thai woman, help with travel plans, marriage and visa applications and support and guidance along the way. Yes it can be a bit of a sort of marriage production line, but many couples prefer this approach. Thai ladies work hard and they don't have much time to look for a partner. Both the man and woman have most likely been married before, so they're not interested in a lavish marriage ceremony. Finally don't forget that a lot of men and women hate dating and would love to pay someone to find a suitable partner for them.

Introduction agencies tend to be much more selective about which women they will register with them. A reputable agency will perform background checks on a lady, and ensure her identity checks out.

An introduction agency will often be a lot more honest about whether a woman likes you and is a suitable match for you.

Another alternative is to go on a romantic tour of an Asian city. There are a number of companies like AFA/LoveMe that offer romantic tours of China and the Philippines.

I'm always worried about Asian women on dating sites only wanting to marry me for a visa or green card. They might also be gold diggers. You know there is a man surplus in a lot of Asian countries, especially mainland China. Why can't these women find men in China? Maybe Chinese men know they're moneygrabbing gold diggers, or they have other bad personality traits. I'll make an exception for divorced ladies. Asian divorced ladies can find it hard to remarry. Some of them married a guy who turned out to be a heavy drinker, womaniser or gambler, so it's not the woman's fault.

For these reasons I am wary of Asian women on dating sites, particularly if they're from the Philippines, Thailand or China and are younger than 35.

There are plenty of women of Asian descent who are living or studying overseas. Loads of Chinese women study at overseas Universities in the USA, Canada or UK. These women are normally from wealthier households, so they're less likely to be gold diggers. They're quite likely to be spoilt princesses though, due to the single child policy. If you're a guy under 30 who wants to find a Chinese woman for dating then you should be able to find one in your local area. This is a lot less risky and a whole lot cheaper than finding an Asian wife in Asia. Sure if you date a younger woman then there's a much greater risk of the relationship not lasting. Sadly that's an issue if you get married at a younger age.

Many countries like the USA, Canada and the UK also have large populations of people of Asian descent. You can find these women on all the popular dating sites. An alternative is to find an Asian woman through word of mouth. This is how most Chinese people meet their partners, so start building a network of Asian friends. One good way of doing this is to find a language study group in your local area. Chinese people are always very impressed with foreigners who attempt to learn their language (and it's easier than you might think).

I hope this article helps you find your dream Asian date!